Loss, itself a grief giving word. But what loss actually is? Is it the death of a person? Or is it someone leaving us forever? Or is it separation of something so dear to you?
But if we go deep to find out answers we would sooner or lesser realise "loss" Is reality. Grief is reality. What is not is happiness, what is illusion is the word forever.
But the question now arises is the loss of anything equivalent to the loss of the other?
And the answer to this is yes, it is!
Loss of anything cannot be compared with the loss of other and a simple reason to it is reality is never compared with anything.
Well I know I went a little out of the track in the introduction itself but this was something I guess one should understand for supporting any person in loss or grief (reality).
When we lose a pet it is as painful as depart of a human. Because you never bring a pet as an animal. At the very initial you know you want to make someone a part of your family, you want you to have a company and that's how it came to you.
And with passage of time you get attached to it as you do get with your girlfriend/boyfriend.
Although things start with simple attachment it eventually ends up being fallen in love. Ya you fall in love with him because you see it caring for you, trying getting your attention whenever you kind of too busy. You find him apologizing for his random silly mischievous acts which makes you fall more and more.
You find yourself being a protective parent now and you acquire a sense of fear to lose him.
But suddenly when one day you get it's absence and that thing get on to your nerves. We are humans and a common psychological fact: we know least how to deal with reality. We are more accumulated with illusion and specifically speaking, ya we quite dependent of anything rather than ourselves.
This is the point we go mad, we kind of feel a batter of emotions all at once.
And moreover loss is more painful when something does not end for the world but it ends for you.You keep an Impaitent wait of uncertainty. As in like when your pet is not dead but it is even not with you (lost). Now along with the pain of your emotions you have an anxiety of its emotions too "how would he survive?, is he safe, did he have his food? " And many other random thoughts struggling to outburst.
In that scenario you call your friend and a answer you receive is it was just a pet, and you immediately feel like slapping that person off. (Not everyone says that though).
You start scrolling down numerous YouTube videos on how to overcome a pet loss but satisfied actually with none. In this case nothing seems more helpful than escaping it situation by diverting your mind.
Now let me tell you that in such situations you need to know 3 things : every particle in the universe will find it's way for survival
Every event in the universe is happening for a reason
And, reality always hits you hard and loss is a reality.
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Is loss of a pet equivalent to loss of a human?
Is loss of a pet equivalent to loss of a human?
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